Can you spot me?
I would be lying if I told you that I loved the army throughout my whole 2 years of it. In fact, as “macho” as it seems to be, life in the Singapore Armed Forces was really bad. I dreaded every morning of it especially because of the physical and mental demands. Before army, I was a sportsman for my school. I was actively involved with my school’s track and field team with pet events in the Javelin and Discuss. This however, wasn’t the same as physical demands were so high that even an obese guy would get lean very quickly. Apart from that, the politics and scheming inside the army was terrible. I couldn’t trust anyone. But well, I do have to thank the army for the changes in my life. For without it, I wouldn’t be able to be tougher both mentally and physically neither would I believe in fighting for the things I believe I deserve to have in life. This change in mindset also proved essential as i slowly grasp unto the life of a soldier and subsequently as a leader in my unit. This change was so tremendous that i was awarded a good service and at the end of my time in the army. This award was a boost of confidence as it indicated my good attitude towards national service, my contribution towards my unit and the nation's confidence in me.
One of the things I really looked forward to after National Service was the prospect of going overseas for further studies. Yes, I did gained entry into Singapore’s University and yes, I do understand that life away from my parents would mean that I would need to be more disciplined and independent but, these were precisely the reasons why I wanted to come over to Australia; to live life again, to become more mature so that when I return, I would not only be more mature but also wiser.
Two obstacles were however before me.
Firstly, Finances.
Although both my parents do hold onto above average salaries in their jobs, the cost of living in Singapore is high and therefore, pursuing my studies in Perth means extra financial burden on my family. However, I am thankful for two close aunties who were willing to sponsor and ensure the payment of my school fees. With this assurance, I began preparing my luggage, Visa`s, finance, passports, documents. In the whole, I am thankful for my very supportive parents who have been ever gracious and encouraging in their support for my time in Australia.
The next major challenge I had was myself. Going abroad means leaving my family, my friends behind and knowing the fact I wont be seeing them in the near future. This also meant that I had to learn how to wash, cook, iron. Yes, I had learnt all these during my time in the army but who wouldn’t want help especially in the form of a maid?
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